| COMFORT & STAGNATION
People have become too comfortable in their lives.
I'VE become too comfortable. There's an interesting concept I've been mulling over lately - the idea is that
when humans become too content with their current situations, there's less of a desire to
change that situation.
Makes sense. Why change something if
it's working for you at that time?
The problem is that when we become
too comfortable, we're in danger of losing our "edge" in life ... we stagnate,
get mentally lazy, and stop evolving ... we become a swarm of little "Jabba the
Hutts" who want nothing more than what we currently have. If we don't constantly
challenge ourselves, we can never become that which we dream. In business, in life, it's
all the same: be comfortable, stagnate, and die worthless to anyone but ourselves.
Wow. That
bites.
In Napoleon Hill's classic
"THINK AND GROW RICH", I came upon what may be the answer to this dilemma.
"A
long while ago, a great warrior faced a situation which made it necessary for him to make
a decision which insured his success on the battlefield. He was about to send his armies
against a powerful foe, whose men outnumbered his own.
He loaded
his soldiers into boats, sailed to the enemy's country, unloaded soldiers and equipment,
then gave the order to burn the ships that had carried them.
Addressing
his men before the first battle, he said 'You see the boats going up in smoke. That means
that we cannot leave these shores alive unless we win! We now have no choice - WE WIN - OR
WE PERISH!'
They
won."
THIS is exactly what needs to happen
for us to get off our lazy asses and DO SOMETHING in life! It hit me like a brick after
reading that passage. In an area we want to improve in life, we need to "burn our
boats" so that there is literally nothing to fall back on - imagine the DESIRE we'd
have to achieve what we want - it's the "fight or flight" syndrome, only WE
CONTROL when we use it and how it works!
The only problem:
not many of us are willing to intentionally disrupt the comfort of where we are -
that would be like a surgeon operating on himself even though he knew he was healthy RIGHT
NOW. That would be like... preventive maintenance (god forbid).
WHY SHOULD I TRY TO FIX
THE FUTURE WHEN I'M DOING O.K. RIGHT NOW? WHY CAN'T THINGS JUST BE LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME?
Because I want to succeed - I want
to learn and get better at what I do EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE. I'm tired of living like the
"majority", a bunch of scared spineless life forms who'd rather die than change,
settling for MEDIOCRE when the BEST is offering itself to them every day.
I'm thinking of ways I can break
free, take the initiative and CREATE that kind of BURNING DESIRE in my life right now.
Quitting the J.O.B. would FORCE me to find a way to increase the traffic in my home
business ... sink or swim, fly or die ...
what's it gonna be?
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